Siza ingane yakho encane iqonde isimiso sayo sansuku zonke ngewashi Lengane - umhleli obonakalayo oklanyelwe izingane ezineminyaka engu-2-6.
Akusekho ukumemeza "Isikhathi sokulala!" noma ukuphindaphinda ukuthi “Gqoka!” izikhathi ezinhlanu. Vele ubonise okulandelayo usebenzisa izithonjana ezicacile nemibala. Valelisa ekudimeni, ukudideka, nokusa okunesiphithiphithi - futhi sawubona ekushintsheni okuzolile, okuzethembayo.
🧩 Liyini Iwashi Lengane?
Iwashi lezingane liwuhlelo lokusebenza olulula, olubonakalayo lweshejuli yezingane ezisacathula kanye nezasenkulisa. Kusiza izingane ukuthi zibone ukuthi yini elandelayo, kwehlise ukukhathazeka futhi zizisize zizizwe zilawula usuku lwazo. Noma ngabe uphethe izinqubo zansuku zonke, izinguquko, noma izikhathi ezinzima njengesikhathi sokulala, lolu hlelo lokusebenza lusekela kokubili izingane nabazali.
Izingane ezincane azisitholi isikhathi ngendlela efanayo nabantu abadala. Baphila esikhathini samanje futhi ngokuvamile abakwazi ukubamba imiqondo engaqondakali njengokuthi “emizuzwini eyi-10” noma “ngemuva kwesidlo sakusihlwa.” Kubo, le mishwana ingazwakala ngokungahleliwe noma idideke. Kungakho izinguquko—njengokumisa isikhathi sokudlala noma ukulungela ukulala—zingaholela ekuphikisweni noma ekuncibilikeni. Abahleli ababonakalayo bavala leli gebe ngokwenza isikhathi sibonakale futhi sibambeke. Esikhundleni sokuthembela emiyalweni yomlomo, izingane zingakwazi ukubona okwenzekayo manje nalokho okulandelayo.
🌈 Kungani amashejuli abonakalayo ebalulekile
Amashejuli abonakalayo angamathuluzi anamandla asiza izingane zenze usuku lwazo lube nengqondo. Bahlukanisa izinqubo eziyinkimbinkimbi zibe izinyathelo ezilula, ezingabikezelwa kusetshenziswa izithombe, imibala, nokulandelana okungaguquki. Isibonelo, esikhundleni sokuthi "Sizohamba emaminithini angu-15," ubabonisa isithonjana "sokugqoka izicathulo" silandelwe "ukugibela imoto." Lokhu kunciphisa ukukhathazeka futhi kuthuthukisa ukubambisana, ngoba ingane iqonda ukugeleza kwezenzakalo ngaphandle kokudinga ukuqopha ulimi lwabantu abadala noma ukukhumbula imiyalelo yomlomo.
Ukuhlela okubonwayo nakho kusekela ukulawulwa kwemizwelo. Lapho izingane zazi ukuthi yini elindelekile nokuthi yini ezayo ngokulandelayo, zizizwa ziphephile futhi zilawula. Lokhu kukhuthaza ukuzimela, kwakha ukuzethemba, futhi kuqinisa ukwethembana phakathi komzali nengane. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isetshenziselwa izinqubo zansuku zonke noma imicimbi ekhethekile njengamaholide nokuvakasha kodokotela, amashejuli abonakalayo aguqula ukungaqiniseki kube ukubikezela okuzolile, okuhlelekile.
🎯 Izici ezibalulekile:
• Ukuhlelwa kwansuku zonke okubonakalayo okwenzelwe izingane ezisacathula (iminyaka engu-2–6 ubudala)
• Idizayini elula nengenaziphazamiso
• Izithonjana ezikhanyayo, ezinemibala ukumela imisebenzi
• Dala futhi wenze ngendlela oyifisayo uhlelo lwengane yakho ngemizuzwana
• Izibonisi zesikrini esigcwele ezidizayinelwe ukuqondwa kalula
• Umugqa wesikhathi ogcwalisa njengoba usuku luqhubeka
• Izinqubo zasekuseni/zakusihlwa ezingasetshenziswa kabusha
• Ukusekelwa ngezilimi eziningi
• Azikho izikhangiso, azikho izigelekeqe – ziphephile ezinganeni
👨👩👧 Okabani:
• Abazali bezingane ezisacathula kanye nezingane zasenkulisa
• Izingane ezinenkinga yokushintshashintsha
• Izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile (autism, ADHD, SPD)
• Imindeni enomzali oyedwa edinga isimiso esingaguquguquki
• Othisha nabanakekeli ezinkulisa nasezinkulisa
📱 Sebenzisa izimo:
• Umatasa ekuseni esikoleni ngaphandle kokumemeza
• Izinqubo zokulala ezibushelelezi
• Izinsuku zokuhamba noma izinguquko zamaholide
• Ukusungula ukuzimela ekhaya
• Ukufundisa ukuzibophezela kanye nesimiso ngendlela ejabulisayo
🎓 Lokho ingane yakho ekufundayo:
• Ukuqaphela isikhathi nokulandelana
• Ukuzimela kanye nobunikazi bomsebenzi
• Ukunciphisa ukumelana nokucindezeleka ngesikhathi soshintsho
• Imikhuba enempilo efana nenhlanzeko, ukulala, nesikhathi sokudla
• Ukubambisana okungcono kunokungqubuzana okuncane kwemizwa
💬 Okushiwo abazali:
• “Ekugcineni sesiyiqedile isiphithiphithi sasekuseni.”
• “Indodana yami ayisabuzi ukuthi ‘yini elandelayo’.”
• “Ilungele ingane yami ene-ADHD—iyalandela ngempela.”
🌟 Yakhelwe ngothando lwemindeni yangempela
Iwashi Lengane lakhiwa abazali, labazali. Siyazi ukuthi impilo yezingane ingaba kanjani engalindelekile - nokuthi into elula njengohlelo olubonakalayo ingenza umehluko omkhulu.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho ayikwazi ukufunda okwamanje, inenkinga yokuhlala inganyakazi, noma idinga nje isimiso esengeziwe osukwini lwayo, Iwashi Lengane likusiza ukuthi wakhe imikhuba enempilo ngokucaca nangokuzola.
🎁 Izame namuhla - ungayilanda mahhala.
Letha ukuthula, ukuzethemba, nokubikezela emhlabeni wengane yakho, isithonjana esisodwa ngesikhathi.
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Jun 16, 2025