Trick me - Body language book
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Mayelana nalolu hlelo lokusebenza
Iqiniso noma amanga?
Ungahlangabezana nakho kokubili amanga neqiniso noma ukukhohlisa empilweni yakho. Kulula ukuhlangana namanga emigwaqweni, ezitolo noma ngenkathi ubuka izindaba ezisematheni ekuseni noma amaqiniso okusebenza kwengqondo ku-TV.
Kungani abantu beqamba amanga?
Wonke umuntu unezizathu zakhe. Osopolitiki baqasha abeluleki ukuze babasize babukeke bethembekile futhi beqotho. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nabantu abathembekile baqamba amanga. Izizathu zingahluka. Isicelo sethu esimayelana nomzimba “Ngikhohlise” sizokusiza uqonde kabanzi mayelana nezizathu nezimpawu zokuqamba amanga.
✓Ososayensi bacabanga ukuthi wonke umuntu uqamba amanga izikhathi ezingu-20 ngosuku futhi ngokuvamile ababoni. Lolu hlelo lokusebenza luzokusiza ukuthi uziqonde kangcono ngokukufundisa izenzo ezingakhulumi.
Uzakwenu ucabangani ngempela?
Namuhla abanye ochwepheshe basebenzisa umtshina wamanga (i-polygraph) ukuze kuqashelwe ukukhohlisa. Ngeshwa, awukwazi ukuthatha i-polygraph ngosuku nesithandwa sakho futhi kungaba yinqaba ukuyisebenzisa nabalingani bakho bebhizinisi. Ngisho nasebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabazali nezingane le divayisi ibonakala ingafaneleki. Futhi nangaphezulu - ukunemba, ngokuya kwezinye izinsiza, kungaphansi kwama-80%.
Iziphi izimpawu ezingaveza amanga?
Kwesinye isikhathi ukungazi kuyinjabulo. Ingabe uqinisekile ukuthi ufuna ngempela ukwazi lapho abantu beqamba amanga kuwe? Ngisho nabaseduze kwakho. Ngokusebenzisa ulwazi lolimi lomzimba ungathola okwengeziwe ngabantu endaweni yangakini. Uyazi ukuthi u-98% wentsha iqamba amanga kubazali bayo kanti u-80% wabantu uqamba amanga amhlophe nsuku zonke? Ithiyori yamanga yisihloko esibanzi kakhulu, kodwa kufanele wamukele leli qiniso - wonke umuntu uqamba amanga.
Izindlela ezivela kulolu hlelo lokusebenza "Ngiqambe amanga" zisetshenziswa emikhakheni eminingi: amaphoyisa, abezokuphepha, abeluleki bezengqondo, i-NLPrs njalonjalo.
Lolu hlelo lokusebenza luwusizo kubaphathi abakhulu, abafundi kanye nawo wonke umuntu ofuna ukwazi ngesayikholoji yokuqamba amanga nokuqonda kangcono abantu.
Umuntu uyacabanga futhi akhulume esebenzisa umzimba wakhe wonke. Ukuze uthole izimpawu zokuqaphela amanga kule psychology ye-ap sisebenzisa izinhlobo eziningi zolimi lomzimba, njenge:
★ Gaze isiqondiso
★ Ukuthinta izindebe
★ Izinhlobo zokuxhawula
★ Isikhundla semilenze
★ qamba amanga ngocingo
★ Ukuhlolwa kwengqondo
Kusukela kudala abantu bebelokhu benesifiso sokwazi ukuthi yini esengqondweni yomuntu. Ngemva kwesikhashana yonke isiqondiso seyakhekile. Manje seyaziwa ngokuthi i-physiognomy. Ngokusebenzisa lolu hlelo lokusebenza "Lie kimi" uzofunda ulimi lomzimba nokuthinta komzimba. Uzothola izimiso eziyinhloko zendlela yokucabanga futhi kuyoba lula kuwe ukubona umqambimanga ngesimo sakhe sobuso.
Abanye ochwepheshe bayafakaza ukuthi wonke umuntu angakwazi ukubona amanga.
Kudingeka uqonde ulimi lomzimba. Yebo, kuyiqiniso! Maduze nje kuzoba lula kuwe ukuthi ufunde izingqondo zabantu kanye ne-microexpressions. Uyokwazi futhi indlela yokuyenga. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzothatha umoya wokukhulumisana okungenazwi. Ngeshwa noma, ngokuphambene, ngethemba ukuthi azikho izindlela eziqinisekisiwe zokudalula inkohliso. Kodwa ngenxa yalolu hlelo lokusebenza uzokwazi ukuqonda abantu, ukwakha ubuhlobo obuseduze noma ukuba ne-egoistic futhi ufunde ukulawula imizwelo yakho. Uma uvame ukubhekana nokukhuluma esidlangalaleni noma uhileleke ezingxoxweni, kuzokusiza ngokuphelele ukuthi uwine izethameli. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kuzoba nomthelela ekuthuthukeni kwakho komuntu siqu.
Akwenzeki ngaso sonke isikhathi ukusebenzisa ulimi lomzimba. Kwesinye isikhathi awunalo ithuba lokubona izandla noma imilenze yomuntu okhuluma naye. Isibonelo, uma uhlezi etafuleni ekamelweni lengqondo noma uhamba ebhasini - kusenethuba lokuveza inkohliso ngamehlo omlingani wakho. Kodwa noma kunjalo sincoma ukuthi ucabangele zonke izimpawu ezitholakalayo ngokuphelele, uqaphela indawo ezungezile nomongo, ngoba ezinye izimpawu zamanga zingaba nencazelo elula. Isibonelo, kubanda, ngakho umlingani wakho weqa izandla ukuze nje afudumale. Noma uhlushwa isifo esingazwani nomzimba, ngakho uvame ukunwaya ikhala lakhe.
Uhlelo lokusebenza luguqulelwe kumathebulethi
Ungahlangabezana nakho kokubili amanga neqiniso noma ukukhohlisa empilweni yakho. Kulula ukuhlangana namanga emigwaqweni, ezitolo noma ngenkathi ubuka izindaba ezisematheni ekuseni noma amaqiniso okusebenza kwengqondo ku-TV.
Kungani abantu beqamba amanga?
Wonke umuntu unezizathu zakhe. Osopolitiki baqasha abeluleki ukuze babasize babukeke bethembekile futhi beqotho. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nabantu abathembekile baqamba amanga. Izizathu zingahluka. Isicelo sethu esimayelana nomzimba “Ngikhohlise” sizokusiza uqonde kabanzi mayelana nezizathu nezimpawu zokuqamba amanga.
✓Ososayensi bacabanga ukuthi wonke umuntu uqamba amanga izikhathi ezingu-20 ngosuku futhi ngokuvamile ababoni. Lolu hlelo lokusebenza luzokusiza ukuthi uziqonde kangcono ngokukufundisa izenzo ezingakhulumi.
Uzakwenu ucabangani ngempela?
Namuhla abanye ochwepheshe basebenzisa umtshina wamanga (i-polygraph) ukuze kuqashelwe ukukhohlisa. Ngeshwa, awukwazi ukuthatha i-polygraph ngosuku nesithandwa sakho futhi kungaba yinqaba ukuyisebenzisa nabalingani bakho bebhizinisi. Ngisho nasebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabazali nezingane le divayisi ibonakala ingafaneleki. Futhi nangaphezulu - ukunemba, ngokuya kwezinye izinsiza, kungaphansi kwama-80%.
Iziphi izimpawu ezingaveza amanga?
Kwesinye isikhathi ukungazi kuyinjabulo. Ingabe uqinisekile ukuthi ufuna ngempela ukwazi lapho abantu beqamba amanga kuwe? Ngisho nabaseduze kwakho. Ngokusebenzisa ulwazi lolimi lomzimba ungathola okwengeziwe ngabantu endaweni yangakini. Uyazi ukuthi u-98% wentsha iqamba amanga kubazali bayo kanti u-80% wabantu uqamba amanga amhlophe nsuku zonke? Ithiyori yamanga yisihloko esibanzi kakhulu, kodwa kufanele wamukele leli qiniso - wonke umuntu uqamba amanga.
Izindlela ezivela kulolu hlelo lokusebenza "Ngiqambe amanga" zisetshenziswa emikhakheni eminingi: amaphoyisa, abezokuphepha, abeluleki bezengqondo, i-NLPrs njalonjalo.
Lolu hlelo lokusebenza luwusizo kubaphathi abakhulu, abafundi kanye nawo wonke umuntu ofuna ukwazi ngesayikholoji yokuqamba amanga nokuqonda kangcono abantu.
Umuntu uyacabanga futhi akhulume esebenzisa umzimba wakhe wonke. Ukuze uthole izimpawu zokuqaphela amanga kule psychology ye-ap sisebenzisa izinhlobo eziningi zolimi lomzimba, njenge:
★ Gaze isiqondiso
★ Ukuthinta izindebe
★ Izinhlobo zokuxhawula
★ Isikhundla semilenze
★ qamba amanga ngocingo
★ Ukuhlolwa kwengqondo
Kusukela kudala abantu bebelokhu benesifiso sokwazi ukuthi yini esengqondweni yomuntu. Ngemva kwesikhashana yonke isiqondiso seyakhekile. Manje seyaziwa ngokuthi i-physiognomy. Ngokusebenzisa lolu hlelo lokusebenza "Lie kimi" uzofunda ulimi lomzimba nokuthinta komzimba. Uzothola izimiso eziyinhloko zendlela yokucabanga futhi kuyoba lula kuwe ukubona umqambimanga ngesimo sakhe sobuso.
Abanye ochwepheshe bayafakaza ukuthi wonke umuntu angakwazi ukubona amanga.
Kudingeka uqonde ulimi lomzimba. Yebo, kuyiqiniso! Maduze nje kuzoba lula kuwe ukuthi ufunde izingqondo zabantu kanye ne-microexpressions. Uyokwazi futhi indlela yokuyenga. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzothatha umoya wokukhulumisana okungenazwi. Ngeshwa noma, ngokuphambene, ngethemba ukuthi azikho izindlela eziqinisekisiwe zokudalula inkohliso. Kodwa ngenxa yalolu hlelo lokusebenza uzokwazi ukuqonda abantu, ukwakha ubuhlobo obuseduze noma ukuba ne-egoistic futhi ufunde ukulawula imizwelo yakho. Uma uvame ukubhekana nokukhuluma esidlangalaleni noma uhileleke ezingxoxweni, kuzokusiza ngokuphelele ukuthi uwine izethameli. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kuzoba nomthelela ekuthuthukeni kwakho komuntu siqu.
Akwenzeki ngaso sonke isikhathi ukusebenzisa ulimi lomzimba. Kwesinye isikhathi awunalo ithuba lokubona izandla noma imilenze yomuntu okhuluma naye. Isibonelo, uma uhlezi etafuleni ekamelweni lengqondo noma uhamba ebhasini - kusenethuba lokuveza inkohliso ngamehlo omlingani wakho. Kodwa noma kunjalo sincoma ukuthi ucabangele zonke izimpawu ezitholakalayo ngokuphelele, uqaphela indawo ezungezile nomongo, ngoba ezinye izimpawu zamanga zingaba nencazelo elula. Isibonelo, kubanda, ngakho umlingani wakho weqa izandla ukuze nje afudumale. Noma uhlushwa isifo esingazwani nomzimba, ngakho uvame ukunwaya ikhala lakhe.
Uhlelo lokusebenza luguqulelwe kumathebulethi
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