Ember: AI Relationship Coach

In-app purchases
4.4
237 reviews
5K+
Downloads
Content rating
Teen
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About this app

Ember is a relationship wellness app that helps couples improve their communication and connection before distance becomes permanent. At its core is Em, an AI couples coach, created by our founder Ellie Baker, a couples coach.

***Designed to keep you together.***

Most relationships drift apart- slowly, silently, through tiny, ordinary choices. Ember gives you the practice for staying close. It’s proactive care, not crisis management.

***Meet Em: Your AI Couples Coach***

Em provides intelligent, systems-thinking perspectives on your relationship dynamics. She’s focused on helping you two think differently and take action.

Sharp, warm conversation that avoids therapeutic language.

Insights rooted in research and real relationship expertise.

Pattern-spotting before drift becomes distance.

***Key Features***

- NEW - Sessions: Solo & Couples coaching without the cost or bias, available 24/7. Em facilitates a real-time, in-person dialogue with you, and if you choose with your partner. Use a Session to navigate a difficult discussion or as a monthly check-in. Em structures the conversation, guides both of you, and then summarizes and analyzes it at the end.
- Argument Analyzer: Real-time insight into how you communicate during conflict. Em listens (with permission), analyzes your patterns, and offers personalized feedback grounded in your actual interaction.
- Sparks: Quick daily conversation prompts to create consistent touch points of connection and to spark real conversation
- Plans: Research-backed sequences designed to improve one specific area of your relationship through small, actionable steps. Each day includes an explainer and a practical exercise like a Challenge, Nudge, or Guided Chat.
- Text Analyzer: Upload your text communication and have it analyzed to better understand your tone, communication patterns, and relational habits.
- The Love Animals Quiz: Discover your relationship style, inspired by relationship science and psychological insights into motivational drivers. Find out if you're the dolphin (intimacy seeker), the hawk (freedom seeker), or one of the six other types.


***What you’ll get***

- Know what you're actually fighting about. Not the dishes, but the thing underneath that keeps recycling.
- Build fluency in your relationship. You'll know what derails you and what brings you back.
- A practice that actually sticks. Playful, straightforward, and light-hearted practices that take less time than scrolling Instagram.


**Subscription Information**

Ember offers an auto-renewing 1-month and annual subscription – both of which give you full access to the entire library of content and app features for as long as you maintain an active subscription.

Payment will be charged to your account at the time of initial subscription purchase. Subscriptions automatically renew unless you cancel your subscription at least 24 hours before the current subscription period ends. Your account will be charged for renewal within 24 hours prior to the end of the current period end date.

You may cancel your subscription at any time by going to your Account Settings and tapping on “Manage Membership” after the purchase.

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Ember is designed for users 18+. Ember is not therapy, and is not a replacement for any medical diagnostic or treatments. Ember cannot, and does not intend to, provide medical advice or diagnosis.

Ember is not designed to be used in crisis. If you are in crisis, please seek out professional help, or a crisis line. You can find resources at www.findahelpline.com.

Terms of Use: http://www.apple.com/legal/itunes/appstore/dev/stdeula
Privacy Policy: https://www.embercouples.com/privacy-policy
Updated on
Jan 13, 2026

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info, Financial info and 3 others
This app may collect these data types
Personal info, Financial info and 3 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

4.4
234 reviews
Jeremiah Womack
January 7, 2026
Had to purchase to even try (should have been the first red flag) but I'm desperate to save my marriage, so I went ahead and paid. The app is pretty, and makes a lot of promises, but the main idea was an assistive AI that listens to your conversations and gives you feedback. Welp, that part doesn't function AT ALL. It says "HI" then immediately stops, pretends something happened when literally NOTHING was recorded, then starts to analyze that nothing. on a loop. this is BASIC function failure.
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Ember App
January 7, 2026
Hi Jeremiah, very sorry to hear this, we had an outage last night with a 3rd party provider we use for this part of the app. We are working to create a fallback system with a backup provider so we don't have this issues again. Please do email hello@embercouples.com if we can help further Apologies again, we appreciate how frustrating it is.
Summer Lawson
January 8, 2026
the app was initially good upon first use but since then it has logged me out of my account and no linger works when I attempt to log back in. I have uninstalled and reinstalled multiple times but it just doesn't respond to my email and offers so acknowledgement/guidence
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Ember App
January 8, 2026
Hi, sorry to hear you've had issues, we aren't aware of any bug. Please do get in touch with us at hello@embercouples.com and we will get you logged in
Dusty Lynn (MissCottinCandy)
January 9, 2026
need to be able to upload audio recordings to be analyzed. also itd be nice to be able to hit record and change screens or turn my screen off.
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What’s new

- New activity feed - never miss a spark!

As always, if you have any feedback or issues please let us know: hello@embercouples.com