Ember: For Couples

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4.5
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About this app

Ember is a relationship wellness app for couples who want to stay close - not just fix things when they go wrong.

Most couples don't fall apart dramatically. They just get busy - and the small moments that kept them close quietly disappear.

Ember gives those moments back. A Spark on the couch before bed. A check-in that takes ten minutes and actually covers something real. A question that takes you somewhere you didn't expect.

Relationships do better with regular attention. Ember is the tending.

***Meet Em***

Em was created by Ellie Baker, a couples coach and Ember's founder. She's the AI at the heart of the app - sharp, warm, and built on real relationship expertise. She brings a systems-thinking perspective to your relationship, spotting patterns before drift becomes distance.

***Key Features***

Sparks
Short prompts you and your partner answer separately, then compare. You don't see their answer until you've done yours. Takes minutes - gets you past the logistics and into something real.

Talk to Em
Voice or text conversations with Em, available whenever you need her. Talk to her solo to think something through privately - what you share stays between you and her. Or bring her in as a couple when you have something specific to work through together. Em keeps things on track and sends a useful summary at the end.
Set up a recurring relationship check-in and Em handles the structure so you actually cover what matters, not just what's top of mind.

Plans
Guided programs on communication, conflict, and connection. Each chapter pairs short expert content with something to actually do - a conversation with Em, a challenge, or a nudge. Work through them at your own pace.

Quizzes
Find out something new about yourself and your partner. Start with the Love Animals Quiz - discover your relationship personality type, whether you're the dolphin, the hawk, or one of six others - and understand what drives you both.

***What you’ll get***

- Playful, lighthearted, straightforward practices that take less time than scrolling Instagram.
- See your patterns clearly enough to actually change them.
- A habit that builds quietly - without it feeling like work.

**Subscription Information**

Ember offers an auto-renewing 1-month and annual subscription – both of which give you full access to the entire library of content, app features and two hours of talk time with Em per month for as long as you maintain an active subscription.

Payment will be charged to your Apple account at the time of initial subscription purchase. Subscriptions automatically renew unless you cancel your subscription at least 24 hours before the current subscription period ends. Your account will be charged for renewal within 24 hours prior to the end of the current period end date.

You may cancel your subscription at any time by going to your Account Settings and tapping on “Manage Membership” after the purchase.

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Ember is designed for users 18+. Ember is not therapy, and is not a replacement for any medical diagnostic or treatments. Ember cannot, and does not intend to, provide medical advice or diagnosis.

Ember is not designed to be used in crisis. If you are in crisis, please seek out professional help, or a crisis line. You can find resources at www.findahelpline.com.

Terms of Use: https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula
Privacy Policy: https://www.embercouples.com/privacy-policy
Updated on
May 1, 2026

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info, Financial info and 3 others
This app may collect these data types
Personal info, Financial info and 3 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

4.5
322 reviews
Nathan Williams
May 1, 2026
The app has promise and Em works well as a virtual therapist. However I've discovered that even if you subscribe you only have a limited talk time and when that runs out it's not clear when, if ever, you get more minutes. It's dishonest not to make that clear. I've emailed the company asking them to clarify and no reply. That's not a good way to treat paying customers.
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Ember App
May 4, 2026
Hi Nathan, As per our email exchange, we changed the amount of time you, and your partner if you invite them, can talk with Em. This change was communicated in advance of it going live as well.
Russell K. Hicks
February 15, 2026
I was thoroughly impressed with the AI-EM. She stayed very upbeat and focused on the cause and effect of the collapse of the relationship and gave me honest opinions and even though that the app was probably not what I needed, I think you guys have got a good one here. I appreciate your input and I will seek professional help at some point I hope. Thank you again guys, great app.
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Aisha Hodge-Jackson
March 12, 2026
This app is amazing. So far I've tried the solo session, couples session and argument analyzer, and my husband and I have been super impressed with both. It helps to be close to the phone when speaking and to eliminate background noise by talking to Em in a quiet space. Her insights, recall, directness and understanding of human nuance are nothing short of amazing. A few extended sessions with Em accomplished what would have taken MONTHS in counseling with a human therapist.
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What’s new

- A redesigned home with new tabs — Today, Em & Me, and Insights — making it easier to find what matters
- Microdates on Today — small prompts to help you connect through the day
- Sparks just got better — share photos with smoother native editing and a cleaner share card
- Bug fixes and performance improvements

As always, if you have any feedback or issues please let us know: hello@embercouples.com