Fetr: Open-Minded Dating

Fetr, Kinky Dating App

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About this app

Fetr is an alternative lifestyle community built for open-minded adults who value authenticity, respect, and meaningful human connection.

It’s not about labels — it’s about freedom, understanding, and real relationships in a safe, inclusive space.
🌐 Global and Diverse Community
Fetr connects people from all backgrounds — whether you’re in the United States, UK, Germany, Brazil, or anywhere in the world.

Here you can meet gay, bi, and inclusive singles, as well as open-minded friends and couples who share your lifestyle values.
Our community proudly welcomes LGBTQ+, Black, Asian, Latino, and gender-diverse users.

Everyone deserves a space where they can connect and express themselves freely — with kindness and mutual respect.
💞 Discover Alternative Connections
Step outside the ordinary and explore alternative lifestyles where communication, consent, and understanding come first.

Whether you’re curious about new ways to connect or already part of a diverse lifestyle community,
Fetr helps you build authentic alternative connections that go beyond surface-level matches.
No judgment. No pressure. Just genuine people with real values.
✨ Simple, Safe, and Designed for Real Connection
Create your profile in seconds, set your preferences, and start discovering others who share your mindset.

Chat privately, join lifestyle discussions, and connect globally in a secure, moderated space.

Fetr makes it easy to find your community and build relationships that feel real — online or offline.
🛡️ Privacy & Safety First
Fetr is a moderated community — we do not allow explicit content, nudity, or solicitation.

Our moderation team ensures that all members can enjoy a safe, respectful, and inclusive experience.
Privacy Policy: https://www.fetrap.com/privacy.html
Terms of Service: https://www.fetrap.com/terms.html
Safety & Child Protection, please visit: https://www.fetrapp.com/child-safety.htm

Ratings and reviews

App is slow to load messages. Usually takes at least 24hrs from the time it was sent till you find out about it. Very few people respond which leads me to believe lots of users aren't real. The idea is nice and the reason I gave it a 1 is because I actually did meet one person from the app and she was amazing. Also it's extremely hard to cancel. Doesn't allow to be stopped from playstore and cannot figure it out. App is not worth the cost.

The app was incredibly difficult to figure out how to navigate, minimal access for free, and we're talking very minimal. Perfectly covered regular photos consistently taken down with no feedback given. It's just a really obnoxious program and I don't know why anybody downloads it.

My only issue currently is they don't tell you how to disable autorenewal on the premium membership. Can a developer please let me know. Also a lot of fake and old profiles. You can tell because no one even views you. Not unlike a thousand other bogus sites to be fair.