HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

Contains adsIn-app purchases
33.7K reviews
Content rating
Mature 17+
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About this app

Join over 13 million+ lesbian, bisexual, trans, and queer people on HER - the world's most loved dating app & platform for the LGBTQIA+ community. We believe that everyone has the right to love and be loved, find friends, form meaningful relationships in the LGBTQIA+ community.

HER started as a lesbian dating app built by and for lesbian & queer womxn. We evolved into an LGBTQIA+ platform for all colors of the rainbow. We are proud to say that now we are more than the 'swipe right' lesbian dating app. We want to be the best LGBTQ platform, and we are working hard to make it happen.

❤️ Dating – Experience the best online lesbian dating & meet queer folks from all over the world.
❤️ LGBTQ+ News Feed – Share the most urgent and fantastic news about the LGBTIQ+ community.
❤️ Communities – Join smaller community group chats based on interests or hobbies.
❤️ Parties – the HER team hosts parties in 15 cities worldwide (from London to LA). Find out when the next one is near you and get exclusive discounts on tickets.

At its heart, HER is a free dating app for lesbians and LGBTQ+ people. All the app's core features are entirely free, so finding your person or your community is accessible for everyone. With the free app version, you can add friends, view profiles, start chats, view events, and join communities.

There's also paid subscription offering even more great features.
– Ad-free experience
– See who's online in real-time
– Additional search filters
– Incognito mode
– And many more!

Download HER to join a community of people who believe in LGBTQ+ equality and empowerment. Whether you're here for a girlfriend or partner, someone for a great date, or your next friendship group, the HER community is a welcoming and supportive one.

HER is a place where you can be authentical, whether you're lesbian, bi, queer, non-binary, a transgender woman, a transgender man, or gender non-conforming. It's your safe harbor where everyone can be their true self.

Contrary to what you might think, HER is a safe and inclusive place to date and chat for all queer people. While it started as a lesbian dating app, it has evolved into a platform for LGBTQIA+ people. Cis women, trans women, trans men, non-binary people, and gender non-conforming people are all welcome. Share your story, discover local events, join the community and live your best life!

HER is somewhere that all the other colors of the rainbow can unite.

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Updated on
Feb 26, 2024

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info, Financial info and 2 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

33.2K reviews
Jessica Black
February 14, 2024
I got the gold membership but didn't realize that I still wouldn't be able to see my likes. Then I saw that they had a thirst mode option which (I thought) gives you 60 minutes to go over your likes and match or not (it doesn't). I got the TM refunded immediately but I can't figure out how to REPLACE the charge for gold with the charge for premium. I don't want to pay for both at once, that makes no sense. Customer support is really important to me and there is no easy option for that.
18 people found this review helpful
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February 14, 2024
So sorry to hear this! We'd love to get this sorted for you. Please send us a note at support@weareher.com with details
Harlee Quinn
January 8, 2024
So, this is the second time I've tried using this app and the same thing happened, my account was put on hold after all I did was click 'continue' from the gallery. I contacted customer support but it's still absolutely ridiculous that I've been kicked out AGAIN for NO REASON. Y'all need to fix this issue. All my photos were perfectly appropriate by the way, there was nothing wrong with them so I don't know why I've been put on hold yet again
61 people found this review helpful
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March 3, 2022
We understand your frustration. Take a look at our article on suspensions (https://her.freshdesk.com/en/support/solutions/articles/12000010611-my-profile-is-suspended-) and get in touch with us. Talk soon!
January 26, 2024
Having unskippable ads randomly in your app is going to make it feel low quality, and amongst other issues like the UI/UX being laggy/poorly designed and not having a pause/hide account feature, this app comes up really short. If you have ads, give us more features. Don't try and double dip by having premium features while also creating bad user experiences for those who don't pay. That's a terrible business decision. Update: This app installed malware casino apps on my phone, do not get this.
69 people found this review helpful
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January 17, 2024
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback. If you have any suggestions on how we could better the experience of the app for its users, please send us a message at support@weareher.com

What's new

To improve your experience, we update the app regularly. This update contains both performance enhancements and new features!