HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

Contains adsIn-app purchases
17.7K reviews
Content rating
Mature 17+
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About this app

HER LGBTQ+ Dating & Community

Meet & chat with queer women, trans, nonbinary, and gender non-conforming people

🏳️‍🌈 Join 10 million+ queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming folkx on HER - the world's most loved LGBTQ+ dating & community app. Your people are here. 🏳️‍🌈

HER is built by queers for queers. We're proud to provide a safe dating and chat space for the LGBTQIA2S+ community to form meaningful relationships, hookup, and hang out.

Download HER and let us welcome you to a supportive and inclusive place filled with people like you.

All of our core features are completely free.
❤️ Safe Queer Dating – match and chat with people from your neighborhood and all over the world.
🤝 Community – hang out with others who have similar values, interests, or hobbies by joining as many of our 30+ communities as you'd like!
🕶️ Stand Out – add pronouns, pride pins, gender & sexual identities, fun facts, Spotify go-to's, and more to your profile. Be authentically you.

Unlock more features with premium!
🤫 Incognito mode – no one can see you unless you like them first
🧐 Additional search filters – find exactly who you're looking for.
👋 Online now – send a real-time hello to someone online!
🚫 Ad-free experience – we won't interrupt your groove.

See you around!
Instagram & TikTok - @hersocialapp

Updated on
Aug 8, 2022

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Location, Personal info and 3 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted
17.7K reviews
Guinevere Baldwin
July 30, 2022
I really wanted to love this app, but I'm consistently getting likes and friend requests from obviously fake profiles, or scam profiles. It's not even just once in a while, it's several times a day. On top of that, the interface is not great, tabs don't load or get stuck on the screen while the new page loads on top of it. It's just not worth all the annoyances.
54 people found this review helpful
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August 1, 2022
I'm sorry to hear this was your experience on the app. We are in the process of updating our flagging system to improve scammer detection so you have confidence that the person you are talking to is real. Please report any suspicious profiles as you see them and our team will check them out as soon as possible.
Madeline Gregg
August 8, 2022
I love how specific you can be on this app. Everything from your pronouns, to sexual orientation, to the type of relationship (or friendship) you are looking for. It's incredibly inclusive. You also have the option of friending someone vs just swiping on them. 10/10. It is unreasonably expensive for the paid version so you only get a certain amount of swipes or likes a day which is annoying but it prevents me from swiping for days.
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Morgan McCormick
August 9, 2022
I'm giving it three stars for the following reasons, in no particular order: 🟥 The overall UI experience is subpar. Switching between notifications, chat, etc is difficult. Messages sometimes lag. 🟢 The options presented for relationship orientations, sexual orientations, and gender identities are greater than average. I haven't seen a polyamorous inclusive dating app of this level yet. With some more work on the UI side, this app could overtake the dating world giants, like tinder and bumble
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What's new

To improve your experience, we update the app regularly. This update contains both performance enhancements and new features!