PolyFinda Polyamory Kink Dates

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1.5
260 reviews
50K+
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Mature 17+
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About this app

How is PolyFinda different to regular dating apps?

Finding the right dating app can be challenging for people engaging in alternative relationship styles. PolyFinda is purpose built to make it easier for people who are ethically non-monogamous (ENM), polyamorous, or specifically seeking kink experiences to find others interested in the same thing as them. The app is built to be inclusive and supportive of diverse relationship styles, reducing the time and effort spent filtering out incompatible matches found on traditional dating apps.

Looking for love and friendship? Something kinky and fun? Someone to practise shibari/rope bondage with? There are more options in PolyFinda, because there are more ways to love and connect in ethical non-monogamy. With PolyFinda, there is no need to confine yourself to just one identity. You can choose multiple selections for orientation and preference, so you can find what you’re looking for, and know that people you match with are looking for someone like you. Whether you’re new to the ENM or kink scenes, experienced in ENM or kink, PolyFinda can help you make real connections. Start connecting with likeminded individuals near you today.

Who created PolyFinda and why?

PolyFinda was founded by members of the ethical non-monogamy community to help people interested in all forms of ENM to connect with one another. Due to the open-minded philosophy of the app, PolyFinda draws users from the queer, BDSM and kink communities. However, not all individuals exploring ENM people are interested in the kink. As a result, the app has evolved to allow users to more effectively find others with similar interests whilst not suggesting individuals who don’t share the same desires. Additionally, the app has a specific focus on allowing people interested in shibari to find other riggers and shibari bottoms to practice with.

For instance, if you are interested in finding a kinky play partner or a shibari rope bottom, you can filter out all profiles who don’t list kink or shibari as an interest of theirs.

HOW IT WORKS

PolyFinda is free to join. You can find polyamorous, open, poly-curious, or kinky people near you quickly.

Chat right away. Click ā€˜Match and Chat’ to send messages to users online and near you.

A full membership comes with unlimited messages, boosted profile visibility, and the ability to see who has liked you. Full member subscriptions auto-renew monthly unless you adjust or cancel them in your app-store settings.

App Features:

Different levels of connection – you can message another user without a match or wait until you match with someone before reaching out. You can also bookmark a profile without it showing up as a match to come back to later.

Inclusive profile options - select from over 10 gender identities and relationship styles.

Customise your potential matches by selecting what you are seeking. Options include fun, dating, friendship, love, marriage, relationships, shibari events, kink events, local polyamorous events, counsellors and therapists specialising in alternative relating, education, parties and more!
For more details please refer to the PolyFinda terms of use: https://polyfinda.com/terms-of-use and privacy policy: https://polyfinda.com/privacy-policy/
Updated on
Oct 1, 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Location and Device or other IDs
No data collected
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Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

1.5
251 reviews
Chris Koger
January 30, 2026
I gave up. it logs me our every so often for no reason and instead of having an easy login like fingerprint I got sick of forgetting the password and since my email no longer works I can't get the password and can't access my account. so I don't use the app. I have 3 other apps I don't have a problem with. you guys are pathetic. wasted all that time on this app to not have access. I hope you are happy you lost a customer because you couldn't keep me logged in
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Cav Gallagher
January 8, 2023
The good news is, the population on this app is better than it was a couple of years ago. However, over 48 hours after joining and paying for a month's membership, I'm still waiting for my photos to be approved. There's no contact option on the app for enquiries/technical issues, so instead I'll just have to raise it here. The app has promise, but so far the customer service has sucked.
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Evan Goldstein (Darkthold)
December 9, 2025
Of the people who have liked and messaged me all 4 have been scammers/bot accounts. Also any matches I do get are waaaaay outside my preferred area. The one supposed match near me turned out to be someone trying to scam gift card money from me. Frankly use any other dating app if you are poly other than this one.
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