Slowly: Make Global Friends

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About this app

Slowly: Build Authentic Friendships at Your Own Pace

"In a world dominated by instant messaging, meaningful connections have become a rare luxury."

Slowly reimagines the art of correspondence, offering a unique way to make friends. Connect with penpals around the world and explore the beauty of cultural and linguistic exchange through thoughtfully written letters. Rediscover the joy of anticipation and dive into heartfelt, written conversations.

Designed for those who prefer to take their time and focus on genuine connections, Slowly brings back the charm of traditional penpals. Each letter takes time to arrive—anywhere from a few hours to a few days—depending on the distance between you and your new friend. Whether you’re looking for foreign friends, a language exchange partner, or simply a quiet space to write a meaningful letter, Slowly is here for you.

Key Features:

► Distance-Based Letter Delivery
Each letter travels at a speed that reflects the physical distance between you and your friend, creating a sense of anticipation. With no pressure to respond instantly, you have time to reflect, compose your thoughts, and share your story. This slower pace nurtures deeper and more meaningful connections.

► Collect Over 2,000 Unique Stamps
Turn every letter into an adventure by collecting unique regional stamps from across the globe. These stamps add a personal and cultural touch to your correspondence, serving as reminders of the friendships you create.

► A Safe and Secure Space for Everyone
No photos, no real names—just your thoughts, shared in a secure and stress-free environment. Whether you're an introvert looking for deeper conversations or someone who values privacy, Slowly offers a safe place to express yourself and connect authentically.

► Unlimited Letters, Always Free
Enjoy the art of writing without limits—send and receive as many letters as you like, completely free. Optional premium features are available to enhance your experience and meet your unique needs.

Who Is Slowly For?

- Anyone looking to make friends at their own pace, free from the rush of instant communication.
- Language learners seeking partners for meaningful language exchange.
- People who love writing letters and want to explore different cultures.
- Introverts and thoughtful individuals who prefer calm, meaningful interactions.
- Anyone hoping to meet new friends from all over the world.

Slowly: Authentic Friendships, at Your Speed.
Whether you’re looking to reconnect with the joy of letter writing, discover new perspectives, or simply build friendships that matter, Slowly is your perfect companion for creating meaningful connections in a fast-paced world.

Terms of Service:
https://slowly.app/terms/
Find foreign friends, language exchange partners, and BFFs through pen pals.
Updated on
Sep 23, 2026
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Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
  • This app may share these data types with third parties
    Location, Personal info and 2 others
  • This app may collect these data types
    Location, Personal info and 6 others
  • Data is encrypted in transit
  • You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

170K reviews
DollopHead
June 17, 2026
Very simple, send a letter, possibly get one back. Or get one from someone unexpected. Very easy process and I like how it takes time, so you can just not worry and do whatever you need to do while waiting for a pen pal to respond. However it is difficult sometimes to edit what you typed out in a letter because it kind of glitches, keeping you from scrolling up or down. Other than that though it's pretty good, I usually just use another app to write it down and edit it myself before sending it.
20 people found this review helpful
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Slowly Communications Limited
June 18, 2026
Hi DollopHead, thanks for the review! We're glad you love our slow-paced approach. We appreciate you pointing out the editing issue, please contact us at support@getslowly.com with your device details so our team can investigate further. We'll continue working to improve the experience, and hope you enjoy many more meaningful exchanges on Slowly.
Katie
May 10, 2026
I have been using Slowly for several months now. Within a few weeks of downloading the app, I connected with someone very similar to me. We've been sending letters back and forth ever since. I would highly recommend this app for those looking for long-form writing. Instead of short chat messages, like other pen pal apps, members frequently write lengthy, descriptive letters. I love Slowly. I hope you love Slowly too.
28 people found this review helpful
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Slowly Communications Limited
May 11, 2026
Hi Katie, thank you for your wonderful review! We’re delighted you've found such great friendships through in-depth communication. It's heartening to hear our community is a space for your descriptive letters. We’ll keep working to improve, and we wish you many more meaningful connections and happy writing!
Hayley Anderson
June 18, 2026
I've used Slowly off and on for 5 years. they do an excellent job creating a safe atmosphere. Finding people to chat with is easy, there is a variety of people that match my interests and are genuinely looking for pen-pals. If anyone is weird it's easy to get rid of them. You cannot send or receive pictures without consent from both parties. You don't have to give your real name, your location is approximate, and you can block specific tags on profiles to avoid explicit conversations. 10/10.
25 people found this review helpful
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Slowly Communications Limited
June 19, 2026
Thank you for your review and for being a long-time Slowly member! We’re thrilled to hear that our focus on safety and privacy has helped create a positive experience for you. We’re also glad you’ve found genuine connections through Slowly. We will continue improving to help more people build meaningful connections in a safe way.

What’s new

What’s New:
• Drawing Tool: Create and attach your own drawings to letters.
• Goodbye Letters: Send a farewell before deleting your account or removing a pen pal.
• Pen Pal Stamp Stores: Plus members can switch to a pen pal’s local Stamp Store and discover regional stamps.
Improvements:
• Photo Attachments: Drag and drop attached photos to arrange their order.
• Draft Auto-Save: More reliable auto-saving keeps letters and drawings safe if interrupted.
• Bug fixes and performance improvements.