Tea Dating Advice

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4.4
30.2K reviews
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Mature 17+
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About this app

Are we dating the same guy? Ask our anonymous community of women to make sure your date is safe, not a catfish, and not in a relationship.

Already swiping for dates on Tinder, Bumble, Match, or Hinge? Tea is a must-have app, helping women avoid red flags before the first date with dating advice, and showing them who’s really behind the profile of the person they're dating.

Women can ask their local, anonymous community about men in their area to see if the man is safe and to answer the question of “are we dating the same guy” (awdtsg). The Facebook dating groups are a thing of the past. And there’s no longer a need for other apps like NSOPW, Beenverified, and People Looker—Tea has all the answers you need.

Users can access a nationwide forum of posts and can set alerts for a man’s name so you never miss any tea about your potential date, ex, or partner, and so you can make sure they are not a cheater. Users can anonymously ask for dating and relationship advice to find support and empowerment from our community of verified women.

So whether you’re planning a coffee meet-up or something more serious, Tea gives you the confidence to move forward with your date.

No matter how you meet, via dating apps, friends, or a chance encounter, Tea and its users help you date safe—increasing your chances of dating success.

Tea is the perfect companion app if you’re using dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Match, or Hinge—giving you a layer of safety and community insight before the first date.
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Updated on
Aug 10, 2026

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
  • This app may share these data types with third parties
    App activity and App info and performance
  • This app may collect these data types
    Location, Personal info and 4 others
  • Data is encrypted in transit
  • You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

29.9K reviews
Irithylle Nichole
July 14, 2026
Great sort of App in my opinion, I do have some serious gripes. The facial recognition doesn't work whatsoever. Way too many issues with that, another thing is. When I want to obviously post about someone who's a danger to other women, I shouldn't have such a short text limit. if I'm making a short checklist and I don't even have space to do that, there's a problem. That needs to be fixed and adjusted! Also seems to be a little lag and issues with refresh ability
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Azairyia Burkhart (Zi)
August 8, 2025
The concept is great. but it's so buggy it's ridiculous. It's super frustrating to navigate the app. The sign up for me was easy- everything else is hard. logs me out, you type a name in the bar and it's buggy. things won't load. and now the APP won't open. I deleted it and reinstalled and it STILL straight up won't open. do better. You're getting so many complaints. You just had an update and it still sucks. Get someone more experienced in coding and IT please.
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Tammy Crouch
September 26, 2025
They want $19+ a month to use this app with all features.. so expensive! I paid it, and the apps so buggy that it's hard to navigate. Update: The app randomly logged me out and gave me no way to log back in. I had to create a whole new account and wait to be approved again. Meanwhile, I had my first accounts out there somewhere with the subscription on it. I created a new account and canceled the sub on the first account, and added it to the new account, and now the new one won't let me in!
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What’s new

General improvements and bug fixes.