RealMenDontPorn - Accountable

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About this app

RealMenDontPorn is an accountability app made for the modern man who lives in the digital age and understands deep down that porn use will hurt themselves and those around them whom they love dearly.

Tailor made for battling porn addiction, recovery, and prevention. All are welcome to join the fight no matter what your motivations are.

You cannot fight this alone in the dark.
*The whole idea of incognito is to HIDE your bad habits. You need accountability.
*RealMenDontPorn ends secrecy by reporting your device activities, even in incognito, to your trusted buddy.

What this app monitors:
*Links visited: Browsing history is reported to your buddy. Suspicious links are flagged for review. Works with Incognito.
*On-screen text: Effective for in-app monitoring where links are not present.

Your buddy is alerted when:
*Porn site is visited
*Suspicious on-screen text is detected
*Uninstall is attempted

Powerful tools for your buddy:
*Daily email report
*Buddy dashboard for real time review (

Who is my buddy?
*Someone who will call you out when you slip up.
*Someone who gives a damn about your well being.
*Someone who isn't afraid to speak truth to you in your moment of weakness.
*Example: spouse, gym buddy, girlfriend, brother.

Custom sensitivity for all use cases:
*Select from high, medium, or low depending on your use case.

Privacy-first buddy assignment
*Assign a "limited" role to your buddy if you want them to only see suspicious entries in your report.

Multi-device, one flat fee:
*Install RealMenDontPorn for computers here

Responsive, efficient customer success team:
We don't just support you. We make sure you're set up for success. We don't give up on our community. Even if you want to just say hi, we'll ping back. :)


Need a porn blocker?
*Download Detoxify, our porn blocker / web filter:
*Use Detoxify in tandem with RealMenDontPorn for maximum protection!


*Contact our customer success team directly, we'll get back to you within 24hrs (
*Disable battery saving/optimization for the app to work correctly.
*Get notified for other platforms:


*This app uses Accessibility services. It uses the BIND_ACCESSIBILITY_SERVICE permission to monitor text and links. This is a powerful feature that helps people stay accountable on their devices.
*This app uses the Device Administrator permission. We only use this to alert your buddy when you uninstall the app. We do not use this for anything else.
Updated on
Oct 10, 2023

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
No data shared with third parties
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No data collected
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Data is encrypted in transit
Data can’t be deleted

Ratings and reviews

604 reviews
shaun cristan
August 11, 2022
Works great, there is a bug. You have to switch off app optimization in order for it to work 24/7. I had unistalled the app from my phone for a while because I thought it was the app. I re-download it because it really works. I asked about the bug and they told me how to make sure the app does not crash. If you have any problems customer service helps tremendously. I wish I would have contacted them sooner.
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Douglas Dube
August 28, 2021
Update... I left at 2 stars because the system did a great job when it worked. However for nearly 9 months now it has not been monitoring at all, or a few snapshots a day after I reset my phone. The service department gave a bunch of settings to change in my phone back when it first started and I made the changes to no improvement and they said it was basicly just my phone. It has been several months since then, but nothing has changed. Perhaps the app needs to be updated to accommodate new OS?
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Family First Technology
August 29, 2021
Hi there, it could be due to your phone having a new OS that is not stable causing crashes to background apps (best not to update phones so quickly as early versions of OS can contain bugs from the manufacturer).
Simeon Davis
June 23, 2020
Hands down the most intense accountability app. It is definitely a "big brother" style monitoring, but as someone with a fiancée and a history from the past of struggling, I want this safety net. It's wonderful because it doesn't rely on browser history but runs in the background and tracks usage and typing across apps, incognito settings, texts, etc so that - depending on your sensitivity - it will secretly let your selected "buddies" know. 10/10 the best there is. Highly recommend it.
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