THE ILLUSION OF CHANGE: Statistic shows that we only replace a reality with a similar one

Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

About this ebook

The real change will come only when you will accept it inside your soul ...

There are so many books about change or success, that you will not have enough time to read them during this life time.

Sometimes looking for a huge success that could complete our lives ... the change is just part of the script.

And success indeed can’t come without the change.

But what is the change?!

Can you do it by yourself, or you just need special help from different people?!

Or maybe the real change can come only from inside of us ... and the only real help as it to happen is to accept it ... not only want it.

Accept it ... as part of your life.

Imagine that many years ago ... you had been poor, but you dreamed to be rich.

And one day you become rich.

But the funny question is ... do you accept the fact that you became rich?!

There are so many people that they were poor and then they became millionaires ... but soon after they lost everything again.

So ... they re became poor again.

They did not accepted the change.

Could not integrate it in their life.

When change comes in small steps ... is much easier to accept it as part of our new life.

When change comes suddenly ... we need to change our thinking right away ... and dare to see the whole scene of life in different colors.

On the paths trough life ... we get lost.

We lose all our dreams, one by another ... and we also lose ourselves also.

One day ... the idea of change looks illusory and we wonder why we can’t understand the fact that we are never happy anymore.

For a beautiful life, no matter if you are 20, 30, 40, 50 or even 60 or 70 ... you just need a plan ... the plan for the change.

But the change needs to be a positive one ... and not a collection of silly desires.

And if your life is miserable today ... small changes will make almost no difference at all.

The change needs to be a process of ... dreaming big no matter what happens in your actual life.

But you need to visualize and accept the future ... cause the real change means the break up from your past.

You will lose yourself into this process and become a new you ... but if you really want a new you ... you will accept it.

Ratings and reviews

Reading the book i understood that i can start a journey to a illusory change ... or a real change ... that comes from my deep self

thank you for this book I learned a lot from your experience and wisdom

This is why i realized too late that i am chasing an illusion

About the author

I’ve started to write my first book at 16 … but then … realizing i could not publish it … i’ve abandoned the idea of being a … writer.

20 years later … i’ve started to write again … believing i will finally succeed … but i’ve failed one more time … not getting the success i was chasing for.

Another 5 years later … i’ve started one more time to write … but this time … more as a therapy.

It’s what i’ve defined as … self therapy.

I was analyzing and defining lots of weird ideas … that were a lot related to me … and my own soul.

I totally forgot that i was chasing for success.

I was simple writing my thoughts … in essays … becoming this way … maybe not a writer …. but what many define as … an essayist.

This is not a poet … and not a writer.

Or maybe is kind of a poet that is incapable of writing poetry … but is still expressing his thoughts … into a similar way … as a poet.

And is not a writer … cause have not the ability to write for too long time … about the same subject.

But maybe i am not an essayist… either.

I am just an ordinary person … that could be better defined … as a thinker.

Analyzing … and defining my life … practicing this process called … self therapy … i started to understand life … and the way to better paths which i should follow.

And i’ve wrote … and wrote … and wrote … realizing one day that i’ve published tens of books …. not really understanding how the hell I’ve succeeded doing that.

Today i dare to recommend writing … as a therapy.

I could even say … it’s a simple way of understanding who we are … but also a process that could help us … heal our souls.

I personally continue to … write.

It’s in fact … a non ending story that … at least for myself … will probably continue for the rest of my life.

But over all … i am glad … i am doing it.

I continue my philosophical journey … not being able to define myself for clear as a writer or an essayist… but …

Well …. most probably… i am on a good path.

And … i would dare to recommend to everyone … all what i am doing today.