Submissive Training Vol. 3: Online Submission - 25 Things You Must Know To Have A Safe, Fun, Kinky, & Fulfilling BDSM Relationship Online

Elizabeth Cramer

Mar 2015 · Women's Guide To BDSM Book 5 · Living Plus Healthy Publishing

About this ebook

There are a number of reasons a woman may choose online submission. It’s a good way to ease into the community by making friends and observing other people at a safe distance. Creating an online persona allows women to keep their real names and identifiers private. This not only helps maintain physical safety but also gives her the freedom to talk about sexual fantasies and naughty ideas without fearing judgment from other people or consequences on the job.

Online submission also allows for a sexual experience rooted in the world of fantasy. A woman can take on any role or persona she wants, and perform acts she would not be willing or able to do in real life. She can express emotion, devotion and talk as dirty as she likes without feeling self-conscious or uncomfortable. While the scenarios sometimes described in online submission can be pure fantasy (seemingly endless sexual romps with multiple orgasms and no pain or soreness), the feelings of lust, love, loyalty, friendship, and arousal are all very real and can be a part of a vibrant sexual life.

This Submissive Training guide will take you into the world of online submission, along with safety protocols and techniques for making the digital fantasy a physical reality. You will also learn how to make the transition from online submission to a real life meeting.
 

About the author

Elizabeth Cramer is a sex therapist, BDSM educator, and the author of several best selling sex education books including “131 Dirty Talk Examples,” “Make Her Orgasm Again and Again,” “Care and Nurture for the Submissive,” “Submissive Training (vol. 1-3),” “Dom's Guide to Submissive Training (vol. 1-3).”

While pursuing her interests in psychology at college, Elizabeth learnt how to critically read and analyze people. This included herself, which is why at 23, she dared to reach out and touch a darker corner that interested her, something people only joked about at parties. She was looking into BDSM, and found many different communities built on the topic. Cautiously, her account was created to shyly prowl around the forums and read what people had to say. 

It took eight months of lurking around on-line forums before Elizabeth finally picked up the courage to join her first meet-up. It wasn’t as awkward as she had thought, people were nice, encouraging, and it was like finding a new group of friends in which she could confide in about her slightly special preference. She embraced BDSM lifestyle fully and has never looked back since.

At age of 29, Elizabeth graduated with Master’s degree in psychology and earned certification for private therapy practice. While she was qualified in counselling for a variety of situations, she decided to focus on sex therapy. As a side business, she would speak as a part-time lecturer at her old university and others on the topic of sex education and human sexuality. 

While her practice flourishes, in her spare time, Elizabeth writes books to enlighten the public on alternative lifestyles. She has also authored several romance novels and erotica. 

In her personal life, Elizabeth and her Dominant partner have formed a perfect D/s relationship for over three years now. Though not yet married to him, she was able to find love in her life and still balance her work life.