Change Your Mindset, Not Your Man: Learn to Love What's Right Instead of Trying to Fix What's Wrong

Sally B Watkins

Oct 2009 · Sold by Simon and Schuster

About this ebook

There comes a time in every woman's life when she must acknowledge the obvious: She can't change her man. Changing him may not be possible, but she can still change the relationship for the better. In this book, you will learn how to change the way you view you man and your relationship. This groundbreaking guide offers specific strategies to help you accept and even embrace your man as he is. For example, you will learn to:

• Explore how past relationships affect your current mindset
• Decide the best course of action for dealing with your partner
• Reposition your thoughts in a positive way
• Decipher why your man's behaviors bother you so much
• Understand the reasons he hasn't changed despite your best efforts

With quizzes, exercises, and case studies drawn from her own private practice, psychotherapist Sally B. Watkins helps you see your relationship "glass" as half-full—not half-empty. Because you can't change your man, but you can change your mind about him.

About the author

Sally B. Watkins, MSW, is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in California since 1989 treating individuals and couples. She graduated from the University of Maryland at Baltimore with a master's of social work degree and is credentialed in the nationally recognized Academy of Certified Social Workers. Ms. Watkins' early career focused on teaching, grant writing, and various counseling and administrative positions in the social services sector while continuing to take writing classes and produce short stories, essays and creative non-fiction. Her published work includes magazine articles and a series of columns for the local newspaper. Her websites are sallywatkins.net, and healingwords.net.