On my first night of college there were five of us in the dorm room because of a facilities mix up. It was almost like before college, a slumber party filled with giggling girls and gossip and fun with my new dorm mate and our three new neighbors. It was fun and even a little bit exciting, and the best part was that I learned they were all like me. We were all eighteen and filled with hope, excitement, and more. And then everyone started taking their shirts off.