HIS LOVE. HER FANTASY: A collection of love essays
Bu e-kitob haqida
... understanding what love is about.
As friends, as a man, but also as a woman, we try to define the undefined from a love story.
Dreaming about love and being in love ... the path from the fantasy to the love story itself ... is just a matter of luck ... or maybe where you find yourself, on the timeline of your own life.
Maybe is the perfect time for you to explore what love is about, or maybe other things are important at the moment ... and the love story can only be a future “project”.
Exploring what love is about ... in our minds, as a fantasy ... or in the real life, as a real love story ... is depending only and only if we are ready or not.
But what is the difference between fantasy and reality, when even the Bible is saying that everything we see is just an illusion?
Well ... i believe that the fantasy is only the begining of defining what we want ... and the love story is the “experiment” itself.
Is it too much to name a love story ... an “experiment”?!
Well ... exploring ... as a fantasy or as reality is letting your soul understand what love is about.
And ... sometimes is even a life lesson.
The moment when you jump into the fairy tale ... the real fantasy ... and you understand the meaning of love ... the fact that love is about giving and not about receiving ... that is the moment when you also understand what life is about.
Accepting your partner, just as he / she is ... just as accepting all the people from our lives is the moment of awakening.
Me, Adrian ... and my dear Annie ... are only trying to define the unseen path from fantasy to the love story itself.
And also ... let you know that this path is leading you to point when your thinking will be totally redefined.
Life itself ... is about love.
Seeing what love is about ... is understanding the meaning of life.
If the “love chapter” started for you ... even if it’s just a fantasy of reality ... you should be happy.
The awakening will come to you!
Reytinglar va sharhlar
Muallif haqida
I’ve started to write my first book at 16 … but then … realizing i could not publish it … i’ve abandoned the idea of being a … writer.
20 years later … i’ve started to write again … believing i will finally succeed … but i’ve failed one more time … not getting the success i was chasing for.
Another 5 years later … i’ve started one more time to write … but this time … more as a therapy.
It’s what i’ve defined as … self therapy.
I was analyzing and defining lots of weird ideas … that were a lot related to me … and my own soul.
I totally forgot that i was chasing for success.
I was simple writing my thoughts … in essays … becoming this way … maybe not a writer …. but what many define as … an essayist.
This is not a poet … and not a writer.
Or maybe is kind of a poet that is incapable of writing poetry … but is still expressing his thoughts … into a similar way … as a poet.
And is not a writer … cause have not the ability to write for too long time … about the same subject.
But maybe i am not an essayist… either.
I am just an ordinary person … that could be better defined … as a thinker.
Analyzing … and defining my life … practicing this process called … self therapy … i started to understand life … and the way to better paths which i should follow.
And i’ve wrote … and wrote … and wrote … realizing one day that i’ve published tens of books …. not really understanding how the hell I’ve succeeded doing that.
Today i dare to recommend writing … as a therapy.
I could even say … it’s a simple way of understanding who we are … but also a process that could help us … heal our souls.
I personally continue to … write.
It’s in fact … a non ending story that … at least for myself … will probably continue for the rest of my life.
But over all … i am glad … i am doing it.
I continue my philosophical journey … not being able to define myself for clear as a writer or an essayist… but …
Well …. most probably… i am on a good path.
And … i would dare to recommend to everyone … all what i am doing today.
