Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?: Readings to Empower and Encourage Women Involved with Angry and Controlling Men

Lundy Bancroft

Apr 2015 · Sold by Penguin

About this ebook

Lundy Bancroft expands on his bestseller Why Does He Do That? in this daily guide that empowers women who are suffering in abusive relationships.

Even if you’ve read Why Does He Do That?, it may be hard to see the truth of what is happening to you. You may feel overwhelmed by confusion, loss, and fear, and find yourself looking away from the truth and falling back into traumatic patterns.

What you need is something that is there for you every day—to help you make a long series of little changes that will ultimately add up to a big one.

Like a constant friend, this collection of meditations is a source of strength and reassurance designed to speak to women like you, women in relationships with angry and controlling men. It is a tool you can use to learn how to value and respect yourself—even when your partner makes it very clear that he does not.

With seven themes designed to encourage and inspire, Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That? will help you digest what is happening one day at a time, so that you can gain clarity, safety, and freedom.

You will see the truth in your destructive relationship.
You and your children will survive.
And—with these encouragements—even tomorrow will be a better day than today.

Ratings and reviews

An absolute must read for women being hurt by men in their lives. I found this incredibly helpful! The author doesn't mince words, he's very strong in his viewpoint about what kinds of behaviour are and aren't ok. It's very validating to hear from an expert that you're not crazy for how terrible an angry man is making you feel. He's an expert in his field, has helped many women, and really knows what he's talking about. Be prepared for some straight talking, and some hard facts. It may not be easy to read, because sometimes the truth hurts. But you'll be empowered by this book and very glad you read it.

This was very helpful in reassuring so many of my negative thoughts. Very uplifting!

Domestic Violence

About the author

Lundy Bancroft has over twenty-five years of experience in the fields of abuse, trauma, and recovery. He has published five books, including the bestseller Why Does He Do That?, Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?, When Dad Hurts Mom, The Batterer as Parent, and Should I Stay of Should I Go?. Lundy has worked with over 1000 abusive men in his counseling groups. He has also served extensively as a custody evaluator, child abuse investigator, and expert witness, and has presented to 350 audiences across the U.S. and abroad.