Gen Z has had to adapt to a world that constantly asks them to define themselves digitally, with social media and other internet spaces playing a key role in social interactions. The many unspoken rules about what kind of posts, comments, and conversations are acceptable online have formed a unique culture that many young people have internalized.
Being active on social media often means creating a second identity, one that differs significantly from how a young person behaves and feels in real life. Online personas are often bolder or more polished, with posts carefully curated to keep up a consistently appealing image. The relationship between an online and an IRL (in real life) self, and choosing how to interact with peers that see both, adds an extra layer of complexity to Gen Z’s social experience.
The pressure to follow specific norms on social media has led to a rise of low-pressure outlets like the “finsta” (short for fake Instagram). These private social media accounts offer a place to share more honest, unfiltered thoughts and experiences with a select circle of close friends. Similarly, popular share-in-the-moment apps like BeReal are designed for sharing content that’s more low-stakes and authentic. Other popular social apps are explicitly designed to be anonymous, allowing teens to share secrets, gossip, and other personal info without hurting their curated image.